If you’re questioning taking a break from your relationship, don’t be put off by the fact it may mean the end. While a break doesn’t always prove to be a good thing, it can work to help you discover what you really want.

‘A break in a relationship can sometimes save it and can lead to a more fulfilling relationship.’ ‘It also gives both parts the opportunity to have their own space for a while, to think and reflect, spend some alone, miss each other and rekindle the spark. It offers you a chance to figure things out and resolve any issues within the relationship. She tells us: ‘It is a great chance for you to come back to your relationship with a fresh set of eyes and ears. Life, Transformational & Mindfulness Coach Kiran Singh says taking a break can be beneficial for long-term relationships in many ways. ‘If you find your way back to each other, its meant to be.’ For the first time, I really do believe that as much as you don’t want to do it, time away from someone you love brings you closer and makes you stronger. ‘As tormenting as our time apart was, we both say that the time apart saved us. We plan our future and are really excited about it.įrozen Planet II proves size does matter after seal's mating ritual with expandable sack ‘We live together in a lovely home, have a great relationship with each other and spoke about expanding our little dysfunctional family. 3 years after we started our relationship and we are stronger than ever. ‘We spent weeks talking over everything and it was exhausting, emotional but beneficial to know where we stood. ‘For the first time in nearly two years, we both knew what we wanted,’ she explained. Melissa said that she and her boyfriend went back to spending time together again, and it felt like ‘nothing had changed’ – however, she said something had.

It didn’t work and three months after the worst breakup of my life, I went with my gut and went back to him.’ ‘Over the three months we were apart, we both did very well to keep out of each other’s lives (which was extremely difficult as we lived local to each other and had many mutual friends) and try to move on without each other. I told myself that I wouldn’t go back to him. ‘Walking away from someone you love is the hardest thing I’ve ever done but I did very well at convincing myself it was the best thing to do. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. I knew he wasn’t himself and I knew I was trying to sugar-coat it. ‘We were both as devastated as each other and while we both showed reluctance, we both knew it was the best thing to do as it was brewing for a long time. We had a casual relationship and never really discussed our future but were very much in love. She told .uk: ‘My boyfriend and I were together for just over a year when we decided to break up. I also spoke with 23-year-old Melissa, who took a three month break from her boyfriend and says it’s the ‘best thing’ they’ve ever done. ‘Who knows what the outcome is, but I feel we’ll both be in a better place regardless.’ I’ve learnt a lot about myself, including that I relied on my partner to bring me happiness and joy. ‘We’ve both realised how much we enjoy each other’s company. and that if we were to get back together then we’d do so with the intention of moving. It’s helped in that I’ve realised I want to move to L.A. The hope being that our personal desires align. ‘We decided to take a step back and refocus. (Picture: Credit: Phébe Lou Morson for .uk)

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